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  • Eva Varhilion
    • 17 posts
    July 31, 2024 6:03 PM EDT

    Hey everyone, I’ve been curious about the impact of adult entertainment on relationships. Do you think watching porn can negatively affect a romantic relationship? What are your experiences or thoughts on this?

  • Diablo Senie
    • 17 posts
    July 31, 2024 6:04 PM EDT

    Hey EvaVarhilion, interesting topic! Personally, I think it depends on how both people in the relationship view porn videos. For some couples, it’s no big deal and can even be something they enjoy together. But if one partner feels uncomfortable or insecure about it, that can definitely cause issues. Communication is key here. My ex and I used to argue about it because she felt like it was a form of cheating. We never really found a middle ground, which led to trust issues. So, in my experience, it can definitely create tension if both partners aren't on the same page.

  • Alexa houl
    • 17 posts
    July 31, 2024 6:06 PM EDT

    Riley makes a good point. I think it really comes down to the dynamics of the relationship. In my current relationship, we have open discussions about it, and it hasn't caused any problems. We even watch it together sometimes, and it’s just a part of our sexual exploration. However, in a previous relationship, my partner would watch it secretly, and I found out by accident. It wasn’t the porn itself that was the problem, but the secrecy and the feeling of betrayal. It’s all about mutual respect and understanding each other's boundaries. So, yes, it can affect a relationship negatively, but it can also be a non-issue if handled openly and respectfully.